Depression After Vacation: It’s Real and Here’s How to Beat It

Post-vacation blues. Post-holiday blues. Post-tour depression. Depression after vacation. There are countless names for the feelings of hopelessness and sadness one feels after a vacation. Coming home from travelling can be harder than people think, especially if you have been gone for longer than just a couple of weeks. We’re saying it: depression after vacation can be downright debilitating.

When I returned from Europe after three months abroad, I really felt the post-travel blues and it’s no wonder why. After all, what does travel offer us if not endless freedom? Whether we’re strolling the streets of Madrid or reaching Everest Base Camp, our time spent travelling is an empowering experience where we become the masters of our own schedules. So when you go from waking up to new sights, sounds and smells every day to waking up in your bed, in your own town, where everything looks exactly like you left it…things can feel pretty bleak. Think of it as a reserve culture shock!

I made the decision after my tour through Europe that I wouldn’t fall prey to depression after my next vacation so most recently, after spending three months in South America, I returned home ready for it.

In the midst of the battle, I came up with these five easy steps to conquer the transition from world traveller to regular old local.

Depression after vacation: It’s real and here’s how to beat it…

1. Give yourself a week to wind down

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Me literally falling on my bed each time I come home

This might sound silly to some people since you came home from an exciting and appealing experience. What some people don’t know is that when you spend a couple of months or even a year constantly bouncing around, it’s exhausting. Spend some time relaxing instead of immediately diving into real life. I mean, don’t do this for several months, but give yourself a week to get used to being home without worrying about how you should feel or what you should be doing. Don’t even unpack your suitcase if that feels too straining, just *breathe in* and *breathe out,* pet your dog, cat or just catch up on Netflix.

2. Focus on something important

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Me sharing my top skills on my resume

 After a week or so, focus on something that contributes to your life at home. It will not only help you get used to the return, but it will give you a sense of purpose. When I came back from Europe, there were times I felt useless because I didn’t have a job and was living with my parents. I wasn’t going to let that happen again. 

At my age, one of the biggest stressors for people that have been away for an extended period of time is looking for a job. This is what I have decided to focus on, applying for jobs that are of high interest to me and setting up informational interviews with industry professionals. Make looking for a job, your new full-time job. You’ll be paid in positive feelings and a sense of priceless productivity. 

3. Researching your next trip never hurts

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Me pretending researching my next trip is my new job

Whether you have come home from a one week vacation or a one year journey, everyone knows how it feels to come home and want to go somewhere new. It doesn’t hurt to research. This gives you something to do and look forward to. Learning more about the world can benefit you anyway, so why not expand your knowledge while you have time?

You can log into Pinterest, or start a new scrapbook that contains all the dreamy images you need to inspire your next trip abroad. Keep your eyes on the prize and don’t let a potentially depleted bank account discourage your dreams.

4. Keep busy, busy, busy…and busier

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This is not what I look like doing yoga

This one is important. You’re constantly bouncing around while travelling, meeting new people, doing multiple activities a day and planning. You become used to that lifestyle, then you come home and it stops. Don’t let it! Keep yourself busy.

Go to the gym, start cooking, pick up a book, see friends you haven’t seen in a while, learn a new language, do some research on cool events and new restaurants that have opened in your neighbourhood, just do anything! Everything! Eventually, you’ll get back to normal.

5. Print your photos and make your album

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Me literally crying over how much I miss being on vacation

This is a great thing to do while transitioning back to life at home. You’ll be able to see all your memories printed and tangible, allowing you to remember the journey and recall the quiet moments you may have forgotten throughout the adventure. It takes time and it will allow you to come to terms with the fact that you’re back home. For me, making the photo album can be compared to getting closure after a tough break-up.

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What is the post vacation depression?

Post vacation depression is the feeling of hopelessness and sadness one feels after a vacation. Coming home from travelling can be harder than people think, especially if you have been gone for longer than just a couple of weeks.

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What shall you do if you are sad after a vacation?

  1. Give yourself a week to wind down
  2. Focus on something important
  3. Researching your next trip on TourRadar never hurts
  4. Keep busy, busy, busy…and busier
  5. Print your photos and make your album

Why do you feel sad after coming home from a vacation?

Because you feel less free and trapped in the reality that you left when you went on holiday.

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What to do if you are severely depressed after a vacation?

If your symptoms fall into the clinical defintion of depression, make sure to be in touch with your doctor and a therapist in order to decide which are the required next steps for taking care of your mental well-being.

Why do I feel weird after a vacation?

There are many possible reasons, but it’s possible that since you lived a “different” life for a while, now you are reconsidering many aspects of your “usual” life.

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Based in Toronto, Katie has travelled to over 25 countries and loves going to new places, trying new food and cooking as much as she can. After living in Banff, Alberta for two years, she continued to travel Europe and South America extensively. Now, she continues to see the world one step at a time.

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